What is
the most important thing in your life? I bet when you read this question an
answer pops into your head immediately just like one does for me. Everyone in the
world tends to answer this question differently, it is based completely on past
experiences and emotions. Although my answer does not fit my past experiences, it
does fit my beliefs. No matter what happens in my life I know that these people
will always have my back and be there for me. I know that they will love me
unconditionally no matter what we will all go through, and that has been a lot.
If you could not tell by now, my answer is my family. There is so many people
out there that would say this is a cliché on my part but in all honesty I have no
idea where I would be without them for so many reasons.
When I was
three years old, I was diagnosed with ovarian cancer and it gave my family
quite a scare. Through all the support my family gave each other we were able
to manage pass that sticky situation but we were not out of the woods yet. My mom
was diagnosed with breast cancer about the same time and she was not as lucky
as I was. Our family held together as well as you could hope for in that
situation. After a long three year battle, my mother passed away and that made
me realize how lucky I was. I not only had her as my mother but I had three
other mothers. That was my grandmother and my two aunts. They stepped into the
mother position in my life when they truly did not have to. It made me realize
that our family was stronger than I had previously thought. I knew I could
trust these people with my life or talk to them about anything and that made me
ecstatic.
The
most important aspect of our family is communication and sometimes we are not
entirely the efficient at this. Just like every other family out there we are
not perfect but we try our best to stick together. There is times when we will
lose touch with each other and go for days not talking to each other. We may
not talk to each other but we still know that the other is there for you. You could
pick up the phone when something is wrong and we would all come running. Those goofy
and crazy loud families you here about definitely fits the description of our
family perfectly sometimes but it is what makes us so great. Our family
continues to grow stronger and stronger each day with the craziness of our
lives but you know we work through them together. The most entertaining thing
about our family is the fun and exciting phone calls you could get at five o’clock
in the morning. I know I definitely have some fun stories. No matter how crazy
and random our phone calls are, the best thing is that we are always talking. Families
like this are hard to find and I would not replace mine for anything in the
world.
Craziness
seems to be a basic personality for most families but I believe it is an aspect
that makes my family a little more unique compared to others. It truly brings us
closer together then we ever believe it could. Families may seem like an easy
thing to talk about because they are a common thing across the nation but more than
half the time they are truly worth their weight in gold. Everyone has their
demons in their pass just like we do but we do not let that separate us. We
stick together through the bad times and good times. No matter what happens
between us all, we will forever be as thick as thieves.

